For most of us that's just what we do; keep on keepin' on. How long should we struggle with the issues that drag at us? If you are
putting up with things; personal image, relationships, career, negative emotions, you may want to ask yourself, " how long has this been going on and how much longer will it continue?" You don't have to live your life settling for half a loaf, you can have the whole shebang.
Life can be vibrant, vivid and intense. You can wake each day looking forward to the adventures and opportunities that await you; or you can keep on keepin' on...your choice. You can settle or you can release your struggles and live with imagination and creativity.
Your journey starts when you recognize the signs of chronic issues. What are you putting up with, what are you struggling with? If you are making little headway take a moment and consider if you want to drag through another day, week, month, or if you're ready to try something new; applying the principles of the Core Paradigm have helped many and it may help you.
Look through the posts here, or drop me a line to larsline@mail.com about the situations you are resigned to and let's see if there are some alternatives to being trapped by them. You've struggled long enough with unhappiness, frustration, unmet needs and desires. I'll either answer you directly or use the letter (identity obscured) to illustrate common traps driven by the auto/protector self in living in today's very fractious world. Remember your fight/flight/freeze reactions are driven to support you; but are stopping you from having the life you would really like. All of the reasons used by your auto/protector won't add up to a single change in your struggle.
I know that you may feel that all the alternatives have been explored and that writing to me is pointless; but what do you have to lose? If your negative relationships, or career, or self image, or anxiety, depression or other has continued, you are faced with more of the same in the coming days. Take a break and let me know just what it is you're facing.
How long have you been overweight, or alone, or anxious or depressed? How long have you been struggling with the spouse, kids, or parents, siblings or boss? How long have you been 'sorta' happy but really not, or putting up with the lack of intimacy in your life; and how much longer will it last? What are you keepin' on keepin' on about, and when will you be ready to open a dialogue? Write to me and let's take a look at how the Core Paradigm can help you see a new way of being with the chronic life struggles you have put up with long enough...open the door to possibilities and love the ones you're with...until then...I remain...Respectfully Yours, Larry
A Thought for Today: You see whatever you hold as important...if love, kindness, generosity, fairness, and goodwill are important enough to you...you will begin to see examples of these things throughout your day and through out your life....
An Action You can Take...make it so!
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